I have worked my ass of today on line.

The new slave has arrived bearing gifts.
I just now have got the new cleansers for the dungeon. They are hospital cleansers. one is Envirocide, the other is Sporocidin. These kill more things than bleach. They are anti-fungal, anti-bacterial, anti-viral, and even kills tuburculosis, mildew, mold, and eliminates odor.
There are 11 foley catheters, suture staples and removers (for doing “manginas”), there are 3 bags of saline for infusions, and IV sets, anal scopes, rectal tubes. Boy, am I a happy girl. Scalples and blades. And cauterisers. I love that. Now I can do sterile brandings with the cauterisers.

There is a list of duties for him to carry out. We will play after his responsibilities are filled. How we play is determined by the work he produces. Punishments admisistered for lackings, and good work recieves rewards.

Flyer:

I was asleep before 2:30a.m. and woke before 3:30p.m. It’s a miracle! I was up around noon! It had been soooo long since I actually was able to make it to bed at a reasonable hour.

I have the new slave on the road to New Orleans, he won’t be here till 5. The house is still fairly organized, will wonders never cease.

Time to exercise, hop in the tub and figure out my agenda for the day. I am expected out tonight, I don’t know if I am going with slave in tow, or not. He can serve as a drink holder and “cocktail waiter”. Since this is our first encounter I wouldn’t expect much more of public use, unless it felt naturally in play.

I am excited to have a new “toy” to play with that has the broad and open mind and experimental nature of this one. It will be nice to have a slave that can take it as freaky as I will feel the urge to play sometimes. Holding back can be so frustrating. I don’t always want it bizarre, but when I am frisky I really get creative and wierd.

Jacque and I have been interested in colonics since we are pro-enemas around here. Well I wanted to research them for products as well as the effect it has, and the procedure…look at this lovely thing i found about what one product released from several people’s colons!
http://www.juicing.com/colon1.htm

We are looking into this for the health of ourselves and our slaves, and select clients.

I kind of concider just going to the Saint and the Half Moon as Staying home, since they are just a couple of blocks from my house. I went to the Bulldog to have a framboise with jacque-oh and matt (a friend I met on friendster.com that has moved next door to me).

Now, after we split one pitcher, we are back home for movies. I had cooked Matt and myself shrimp and linguini with vegetables, and jacque-oh says she is fasting because she wants to lose weight…inspite of my advice. Fasting only puts it back on and slows your metabolism. I told her to exercise with me and she said “No”.

She can take the quick and simple and I will exercise, well see which has the greater long term advantages. Muscle growth requires more calories and therefore raises metabolism, which means if your diet is average it will rely on your fat reserve. It also helps your body scult, and posture. It even helps the brain chemistry, reducing sleep disorders and emotional brain chemistry.

I am spending my days re-organising the house. I am spending my nights lately staying close to home. This place has been chaotic lately. I am sick of all the papers I need to organize.
I am sick of the confusion of my closets, I am sick of the disorder of my bathroom cabinet. The dungeon has even lost the organizing systems I had them under. Once it is re-organized I have to show Jacque the system so it can stay that way. I finally got all the lose cd cases in order, now I need to re-file all the cd’s that belong in the books. My desk is even out of order right now. It’s tedious.

I find that an orderly house really lifts my spirits. I want a steam cleaner in here. And this week we are getting anti-viral/germicidal cleansers like they use in hospitals to clean the house beyond the capabilities of bleach.

I am hopefully going to have this all done with in the next 2 days.

I have a new personal slave coming in for an overnight stay and the start of his training and preliminary arrangement before he is concidered for a full collaring. With Jacque around it free’s up more time to work on my personal slaves, and some of the other aspects of my little world. I even have been able to take some sessions with less notice.

The Fountain of Venus:
Female Ejaculation
By Mistress Genevieve

Many men find fascination when they find that special lover that shoots.

Shoot you say?
Yes. Some of us girls are naturally talented at female ejaculation. It isn’t some miracle, it isn’t so difficult, and yes, you can do it too. Maybe not to the degree of porn stars, and not necessarily every time, but you’ll surprise yourself.

See, the male and female bodies aren’t so very different. In the beginning of life the sex buds of both sexes are identical. The prostate doesn’t manifest out of nothing. In the female there is an equivalent to the male organ that produces seminal fluid in males.

The most important thing to be able to female ejaculate is to relax!!! If you have ever felt like you were about to pee during orgasm, then you were probably about to shoot. The urethra in male and female do not open when in the throws of orgasm. Swelling of the prostate and the G-spot (for lack of a technical term in Gray’s Anatomy) swells and closes the urethra at the point of orgasm.

What is the female G-spot? Where is it? The G-spot is an area about an inch to an inch and a half across and located approximately two finger joints deep inside the vaginal canal. The G-spot is named for the doctor who first discovered, it in 1950, Dr. Ernest Gräafenberg (1881-1957).

There is a way to stimulate the sponge like organ to fill with fluid, which is essential to the release during orgasm. The fluid has an unknown purpose for the vagina. It neither lubricates nor has any known reproductive value. It is neither vaginal fluid nor urine.

For the male: Many men are highly aroused by a lover that squirts. You can teach your lover to do so by lots of foreplay and the insertion of your finger in to the vagina at the height of excitement. Feel in her for the sponge like texture inside the front wall of the vagina. Remember it is about two finger digits deep inside. Work the area in a “coochie coo” type tickle.

For women: Many women cut themselves short on orgasm. Many think they know what an orgasm is but have always fallen short of it’s true potential. If you feel like you have to pee…don’t fear this. Remember it isn’t pee.

Many women actually hold back from orgasm out of control issues. A strong orgasm at the hands of another may make one feel at their mercy, and some aren’t ready to give that control to someone else. Try with yourself first, if need be.

I personally find that Kagel exercises are all I need to hit my own g-spot during orgasm. And during sex, the Kagel muscles can direct the man’s penis to hit the right spot. The Kagel muscles are the groups of muscles that squeeze the opening and push in the vaginal walls. Your lovers will often be impressed by muscle control so Kagel exercises provide more benefits than just g-spot stimulation. I personally practice daily, if not many times a day. You can do it while just walking through the store.

You may find that female ejaculation can leave you as depleted, relaxed and sleepy as a male’s. It can be good messy fun and I encourage you to just relax, let go and experiment. You may find that this knowledge gives you what your sex life had been missing.

msgenevieve.com

I just realized that I forgot to write my article for this month’s magazine. I am on it right away. This won’t take long.

I have dug in my file cabinet for my research on the subject of female ejeculation, and I am writing on the subject.

Yes, I do have a huge file of all sorts of research I have done on so many obscure areas of play. I researched so many safety aspects of the scene, so many different inputs on the mental aspects and formal protol.

To further perfect my art of domination and sadism I attend many workshops and lectures. I have attended some by Midori, Ilsa Strix, Jay Wiseman, Janet Hardy, and Cleo du Bois…just to mention the ones here. I don’t remember the names of the people I saw lecture for my many years in Houston. I even had private instruction from Ilsa Strix in my dungeon on making “manginas” and rope suspension.

I even read books writen for beginner dommes, and actually will read anyone’s input on the subject. You can never know it all, and even someone totally new to the scene may have an idea or perspective that could really help you grow and improve yourself.

I have started doing my ab exercises again. I love the muscle soreness.

“empty” ison the way over, and jacque-oh is still in bed. we ended up walking a couple of blocks from the house to the Saint and the Half Moon just to go see new faces, take a break from the Quarter. I called Lance and John and she Called Micheal because they all live close to there, and hung out for a bit. i sat around talking with Jeanne from Poet’s Gallery, we both miss Todd, and want him to hurry home. Took some pics in the photo booth with Armand. The bartended put on the Best of the Muppet Show for me, who knows…I might go there for their 8 p.m. movie…but Rick Slave is out of town so it is someone else picking the flick.

I am looking forward to this week. Batty and Kelly are coming and they haven’t been here in over a month. I want them to hurry and move here. I might venture to Houston for a day or two, possibly catching a ride there with them. Since I have lots of stuff to do there, but can’t spend too much time away from here.

“empty” wants me to go to Orlando with him for all the theme parks in September but, too much going on to just up and leave town for a full 5 days.

Claudia is calling and asking when I will get to come to Pheonix to be with her for a few days and I also can’t break away just yet for that…I might be able to after I am done doing the fetish ball in Houston.

Then in November Dez is coming to spend a couple of days with me for her birthday, since it will have been almost 4 years since I saw her. I miss and love her so much, I just wish I could see her kids too. I love her daughter to death!

I hate the idea of Christmas, but I think that with it being 6 years since I saw my Grandmother (when I stayed two weeks with her to help her through her lymphelectomy for breast cancer) I should go see her. I also have my dads family who I haven’t seen for the holidays since I moved here. I actually love going to places where no one has family for any type of family holiday…then there aren’t the family tiffs and issues.

I really want to go see Shannon, Cali and Nefaria in New Mexico (even though I hate New Mexico). Cali and Shannon and I are to suspend on hooks together soon. If I were just independantly wealthy I would be on a plane every five second to see someone else that is important to me and far away…Like Myka in Brooklyn, and Eddy in New Zealand, and the boys from Real MacKenzies wanting me to come to Vancouver, and seeing Heather, Len and Emma in Toronto…and the London to see Helen and Dave. And even drop in on Todd and Misha in LA. And lets not forget Memory in South Beach, and Kat and Barbie in Tampa. Oh, and Chad and Coleen and Will in Chicago!

And though I would visit Aaron, I won’t visit Ohio…just the name of that place draws up images of midwest america…eeek.

Last night we stayed in…tonight we are staying in, and I anticipate tomorrow night to be the same story.

We just saw a movie called May which I simply have to have Ugly Shyla watch.

Time to play with “empty”…Jacque-oh will be practicing her ropes during this scene. We just went to dinner with him…that is our usual weekend.

I have a few other movies to watch, and hopefully I don’t have insomnia…last night I had insomnia even though I stayed home and took some sleep aids. Dammit!