I have been in a book buying mood lately.

I am in search of one book in particular, I was wondering if anyone has a spare copy…(What would it hurt to ask, after all, I was given a lovely Fraternity paddle at the party last night, after posting on it). I am looking for the DSMR4.

That is the Diagnostic and Statistical book of Mental-Disorders and Retardation, Edition 4.

This new revision, which I have the 3rd Edition, re classifies fetishes, and sado-masochism. Supposedly, the new way of pyschology is to consider most sexual deviants of the consenting variety to be mentally healthy in their own right. I would love to have a copy to reference first hand.

This week the Mistressing Manual and Chain male SM3, the Bottoming Book, Kiss of the Whip, My Private Life-Mistress Nan, and Consensual Sadomasochism (Sybil Holliday) and much more that have yet to arrive have all been added to my reading list.

Mistress Pink and I had discussed writing a book together eventually, and I write articles all the time. I would love to put this and many other books in my library to reference and support my statements, and also to help novice submissives to understand that they are not sick, and they are not alone.

It also might be a wondeful thing for others to reference them in defense of their own lifestyle.

I have the hunt out for Freud, and Theodore Reik (Masochism in Modern Man). The evolution of the psychological viewing of fetishism and sado-masochism is fascinating.

On my current reading list, aside from all my new book purchases, I have my old copy of Eroticism :Death and Sexuality by Georges Bataille.

I swear, it is like a college coarse I have made for myself. I have already my own conclussions and experiences with over 15 years in the lifestyle, and decade professional scening. But i want a broader perspective than my own bias, my own preconcieved notions. I want to have as many different inputs as possible as to the amazing world of BDSM…this lifestyle can be therapuetic or detrimental, depending how it is used. It is amazing, beautiful and frightening.

Mistress Genevieve

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We had a great time at the radio station today on the Chef Duke and Rock Show…The guys from COG were there, and they were pretty funny. I hope to get to see them play at House of Shock or even at the Anne Rice Coven Ball.

I haven’t decided between the MOM’s Ball or the Coven Ball or both for Halloween.

I have a ton going on. I am planning November’s party, and I am doing the 3 shows next week. One, at Scarlett’s, one at Howlin Wolf and one at Buddha Belly.

I am completely booked today, I have had to turn away sessions for today and tomorrow. I have someone on the way now. It is a good sign when I am booked, but I hate having to tell anyone I can’t take a session with them that day. I really love meeting new people in the lifestyle, hearing new fetishes, and exploring new scenes with new subs.

Life is just blooming and growing.

I am discussing with “slavegirl babykat” doing an open dungeon once a month or more often to have a show for voyeur. She is so wonderful, when she hits subspace she cries, it is a big turn on to me. I need to see about stocking up on chairs for that.

I am also working on more articles, and more shows, and all sorts of projects…I’ll keep you guys all posted.

Tonight I am busy and up late with the Lil Beaux Peep Show girls.

The evening starts with my resuming of my monthly dungeon parties, then off afterwards to the Buddha Belly for a short Film Festival.

I have to get up early for a radio show with a few of the Lil Beaux Peeps on WSMB/the Chef Duke and Rock show. This is the first radio appearance of Halloween week. The second radio show I will be doing as myself, and not a Lil Beaux Peep, on 106.7 pm. So keep tuned, there are a lot of things going on this.

I actually ge no down time this week…Sunday morning is a brunch, followed by horse back riding, and then helping a subby shop for a corset. Then a mad dash to Buddha belly to go over the performance with Rev. Spooky La Strange and off to perform at Howlin Wolf for our weekly Lil Beaux Peep Show.

I would say that Monday will give me a breather, but with the heavy schedule for Halloween week, I doubt it.

I din’t go promote, I did all that from home instead, I am pooped.

I went a did a little promoting on my own tonight. I also went and got stuff for the dungeon. “empty” helped clean, and we both helped Craig move in next door.

If possible I should laymyself down with benadryl and get some much needed sleep and put off the major straightening of the dungeons till tomorrow, and get rested. Once it is day time I am hopelessly awake, since I have been forcing myself to be productive every day.

I just had my second hot bath today. Hmmmm. still not quite right, maybe some yoga. Anyone want to bring me a bottle of wine and a massage? Damn, I think my lover is getting me spoiled because that is what he does. I get non-stop massages, dinner cooked for me, stories read, and sometimes wine or champagne. What a good boy.

Lunch with “slave froggie” he brought me a Parasol’s po-boy and a dildo gag/face strap on.

Someone didn’t make their appointment.
The mail man brought one of the new dildos I ordered.

Went to rehersal…
came home waiting on UPS.

Worked on line even more than I had when I woke up.

Now, I have to work on this party, still waiting on UPS.
zoom zoom zoom

I went to the New Orleans Leather and Bondage Enthusiast munch tonight. I am pooped from playing with “empty” in suspension and I am out the door to Colette for their Wednesday fetish night.

I saw a lot of people I am fond of in the scene tonight, and fmet a few new ones, that is always nice.

I just got a snelling eye chart for the medical fetishroom…it is soo cute. I love the whole theme room situation, especially since I have a medical fetish.

I also got a new pair of fur lined, locking, leather bondage restraints, and yet another book on Consensual Sado masochism.

I wonder if UPS will bring any surprises today, that was all through the postal office.

	

	

	

				
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This weekend I will be on 1350 AM doing a radio interview with Lil Beaux Peep Show, and I wil be on the radio on Thursday for the Heaven and Hell Party on 106.7 FM. People have been calling and telling me that they have heard my name on the radio…sweet.

I was disappointed that no new toys arrived yesterday.

I was pissed that the plumber didn’t call and say that he was coming ( I had asked the land lord over a week ago to call him, and no one told me when he would come), and that spooked people that were supposed to be in the dungeon at that time. And then he told me that he couldn’t do anything yesterday, and that was only a couple of minutes after he left.

“empty” is being put back on the diet since he was just a bit too large for the leather body bag. I had him lose 40 pounds in less than 6 months last year, and he has kept them off. I have him do yoga before we play, he is living off sushi, and he rides his bike daily, and I sometimes make him use my ab machines.

Sean came over after the day letting me down right and left, and he cooked me dinner, and he actually brought a Niel Gaiman childrens book called “Wolves inthe Walls”, and read it to me.

I was so exhausted that I was out like a light later.

I had a lot of stuff come in on ebay last night, a lot of money orders to go out and nothing came in yesterday! That better mean that a lot of stuff shows up today.

I plan on doing dinner with NOBLE tonight, and heading up to Colette later.

And tomorrow is rehersal day. I thnk I will hold off doing a new routine for a couple of weeks, or atleast till we do that Marilyn Manson after party.