Only two weeks till I return for a week to my hometown of Houston.

People in this town have no respect for your time. Today, I had not only my own sessions not show, but not the slightest bit of decency and courtesy as to call and cancel their pre-paid 6 hour dungeon rental. And because of this one of my sessions couldn’t be booked.

Enough of that rant…if I complained every time I have this happened in New Orleans I would have no time to get things done.

Anyways, with my impending move, my poor little “slave empty” is sad.

Today he came in to drop off laundry trying to joke about how he isn’t going to come do my laundry all the way in LA because it is too far away, and then said, “I don’t know what I am going to do when you leave. You have ruined me for everyone.”

He had told me that 2 years back, when I had come down with pnuemonia he had snuck off to session with another mistress in town. He was so ashamed and I laughed and laughed at him. He told me he was afraid I would punish him…I told him with the embarassment he felt and the dissatisfaction in the other Mistress’s session it appeared he had already been punished.

Since then my grip on him tightened. We have been through a lot. I even have had him in my service on trips to Florida and Los Angeles. He is the only slave I have ever allowed a key to my home.

He does piss me off and get on my nerves (I tend to be a bit demanding), but actually he has shaped up in the last few months and even amazed Domina Shannon with his servitude and respect.
He’s a good boy over all…but not enough to make me stay.

I didn’t even get dressed today. I just worked on my phone domination and laughed on the phone with some of my LA friends who were off to Torturella’s for a bar-b-que.

I was so lazy today that I didn’t even get dressed when my slave came for my laundry. So, lazy that I made him use his own key to leave.

Just something about a rainy day that I just want to curl up with the cats.

“slave empty” and I took Mistress Natasha to get her new cell phone because the one I gave her broke in half yesterday.

It was a day filled with much anticipation, because until a certain point we thought she might join us to play after sushi and hanging out, but she had to get home…

But “slave empty”, during the patient day long waiting to be used and abused by me, several hours chores and errands took place…and sometimes I would encounter a “pervertable” in our shopping and couldn’t resist making his life living hell. He would get a taste of the mischevious mood I was in right in the middle of the store…”Ooooh, look at this, what is this for!?” pointing to a locking vise clamp with a finger trigger release, and before his guard went up it was clamped excruciatingly on his man tit. Whimper, whimper whine…and then he would giggle…attention whore!

After meandering about, having Mistress Natasha do my hair, filing my nails in to sharp daggers and ignoring him, IT WAS TIME.

I have been traveling so much that we hadn’t played together for a little while…

I noticed he gained back most of the 40 pounds I had made him shed…back to the “lose-it-or-your-ass-will-be black-and-blue-for-12-months diet”.

I did some really beautiful rope harnessing and semi-suspension with him…and added a special kick…

I tied his balls with leads to his toes…I had him bend his knees to he either had to accept the pain in his balls or squat down and take the pain in his calfs, before he went on the suspension. I made him try to walk like that, each step pulling his sack down worse., or straining his thighs to crouch into the walk.

My dagger sharp long red nails clawed at his poor tender balls…boo hoo.

The half web upper body suspension allows him to repel and sway and bounce when I throw his weight away from me or pull it to me.

He wasn’t always treated so cruel…I used my new whip Martin made, that I bought in LA, and I flogged him…and any cruel or kind attention to his back sends “empty” into space even more…so I tempered my cruelty with his favorite treat.

After I am done with him he always looks like his is going to pass out and grips on to the closest suspension frame, or falls in a heap on the floor while I get us some water and let his get his whits about him…

I also used the nerve wheel with him today…which I think I have ever done with him…About 7 or 8 years ago almost every session I did involved some Wartenberg wheel play…bbut I honestly think today was the first time in over 2 years I showed an interest in that toy.
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By the way…I am celebrating my kitten’s 1 year birthday…he got a ton of toys and has been happy with them all over the house. My other cat hates toys but wants birthday spankings all year round.

So, I have several slaves in the running…
I have an extensive questionaire I have written, and a second one once my rapport is sufficiently made and screening for the first cut has been done.

There are two or three I am particularly fond of and have a quick favor. I still have plenty of time to really get to know them before I make a decision. I may keep all three, but there is always a slave that out ranks the others.

Then there is my quest for my female stable which always outranks the male stable…they are usually china dolls and precious jewels in a stable, where as men are more practical and applied to labor more…women you chained and tease and keep them close by to be teased as the men envy her role as “Mamma’s trophy girl”.

In this quest, I have seen so many men fail to know the difference between a slave and a submissive…slaves live to serve…submissives submit but often don’t have the true conviction and selfless dedication of a slave.

And then there is a bottom, who quite often just wants to be a plaything, having things done to them. Many bottoms are, infact, Dominants that need a little balance restored to their life…spending all day dominating others, ad in control and just need to let off steam by letting someone else take the wheel. Submission isn’t their nature but some bottoms can submit when they respect a top or desire to, and other bottoms might try to top a Dominant from below if they can get away with it.

Ah, I just bought the tickets to Houston in 3 weeks, for when I perform under the same event as Mistress Persephone for Dare Ware’s Fetish Ball.

I will be accepting appointments durring the stay from September 14th-September20th.

I also just purchased my flight to Tampa for Fetish Con, just 3 days after I return from Houston.

On this trip I will be available for appointments September 23rd-September 25th.

I have a layover in Houston on my way to Tampa, and back…makes me wonder why I don’t just stay in Houston.

I still have to purchase my tickets to Atlanta for DomCon2, and find out my next visit to LA.

At that time I will be available for appointments over the weekend of the convention…from November 11th-November 14th.

Cleanliness is Next To…Part 2.
By Mistress Genevieve

In the last article I prepared the readers of this magazine for the important task of proper cleansing and care of their sex toys.

No matter, who or how many people will use your dildo, butt plug, anal beads, paddle, or pocket pussy…it is most important to properly clean and care for these items to prevent the spread of infection and disease…even if you are the only one it is used on.

So you assembled your toys and stocked the bathroom cabinet with the grocery list of basics I gave you in the first part of the article…what’s next?

Well, that depends on what toys you are dealing with…After having used it with a condom you still have to clean it., and
even though 2 toys look clean there are many things your eyes cannot see on it’s surface that could make you ill, bacteria, disease, and even toys that look similar may be made from different materials with vastly different cleaning instructions. Incorrect cleaning can be inefficient, reduce the life
of your toy, and even break down the integrity of the toy’s surface making
them able to harbor more creepy crawlies where cleaning can’t reach.

The toys in this part of the series will start with someof the most used.

Latex
The latex item should have been used with a condom so you will not see filth in most cases so be sure to wash all of it thoroughly,

Starting with warm (not hot) water and a mild anti bacterial soap (you may like Hibicleanse or ForPlay Toy Cleanser for this job), use a gentle food
scrubber to scrub it.
Put the toy in the warm ( not boiling) water and soak for 20 minutes.
Rinse well and set out to dry.

Silicon
This toy is a bit more expensive than the tried and true latex and jelly toys many are used too but, are loved for their ability to be heated with a dunk in extremely hot water, which makes them warm like body temperature.

More important is the benefit that they are less porous on their surface than jelly, and aren’t suceptible to break down when exposed to oil based products like it’s latex equivilents.

The down fall is that they shouldn’t be used with silicone lubes (which sticksless, last longer and feels better than waterbased lubes). Only use waterbased lube with silicon.
Even though this toy can be used with an oilbased lube, it should always be used with a latex condom and the condom cannot.

To clean it you should bring a pot of water to boil.
Submerge the toy in the boiling water for 3 miutes.
Remove from water with wooden utensils, being careful not to touch the toy to the pot.
Run the toy under cool water till cool to the touch.

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Stay with us in the following issues of Xsite magazine to learn how to clean
leather, cyberskin, neoprene, pvc, jelly and other materials that your favorite sex toys are made of…

About 36 hours till I arrive at LAX.
I can’t begin to explain how I love travel.

So far it looks like Friday evening I will be going to the party at the Lair, and Saturday I am concidering going to Mistress Jordan’s party at Dragon’s Gate…Sunday and Monday I will be at the Dominion all day and evening.

I will take select sessions during the day on Friday, early day Saturday still has openings but I won’t be available all after noon.

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So far with Atkins being strictly in effect for 3 days, I think my body is going into shock before it starts to burn fat…it appears I gained 3 pounds and an inch on my waist…patience…let it work before giving up.

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Insomnia has plagued me bad the last couple of nights…so much to do, dietary changes, and all sorts of crap, stress, pms…they all add up to restlessness.

I love waking and doing my facials, girlie baths, manicures, pedicures, exercising…the perfumes, lotions, creams, shopping, torturous beautiful shoes, corsets…I can drop a few hundred in Walgreens with out trying.

Ah…all lubed up in my favorite latex ballgown from Madame S./So Hip It Hurts. Soon Carla Wild arrives and we are off to something called the “Whore Ball”, it sounded interesting so I wanted to go.

Prrrrrrrrr…
There is nothing in the world like wearing rubber.

The other night I was bored and a bit in the duldrums so I put on my rubber catsuit and pranced around the house.

Last Saturday night/Sunday morning Shannon and I came home to get dressed in rubber and play while watching Japanese fetish films…

this is living.