often part of being a Dominatrix is being a sexual advisor…even when the slave isn’t your own.

I felt that this circumstance is a common one.
This is my responce to a slave that is in love with a Mistress, and she is happily married and not returning of such intense passion:

Did you reveal that to her?
I mean it is common for slaves to be in-love with their mistress, and their mistress be caring yet not in-love with the slave. Infact, being in love would make someone suddenly submissive to a point, and if she reciprocated the emotions I think you would find her less desirable. The fact that she cares yet doesn’t return your passions is just fuel for obsession. I don’t think you’re the first…it is just that most Mistresses have a line drawn with slaves as to the ultimate potential of their relationship, and it would take someone truly a soul mate to break down those convictions…in older worlds and societies where there were real slave and masters, even when in love the masters would never marry or be in a true romantic relationship out of their class or caste.

Just as the emotion of rage is dangerous for a dominant when dealing with a slave, the emotion of passion is too…it ruins the ability to be the sadist and tormenter that you need her to be.

If you haven’t been obsessive and brought your affections to her in a negative manner yet, then I advise you return to your mistress and be happy to be able to serve her in any way or level she allows, and feel fortunate to be her’s.

Mistress Genevieve
http://msgenevieve.com