Flyer:

I was asleep before 2:30a.m. and woke before 3:30p.m. It’s a miracle! I was up around noon! It had been soooo long since I actually was able to make it to bed at a reasonable hour.

I have the new slave on the road to New Orleans, he won’t be here till 5. The house is still fairly organized, will wonders never cease.

Time to exercise, hop in the tub and figure out my agenda for the day. I am expected out tonight, I don’t know if I am going with slave in tow, or not. He can serve as a drink holder and “cocktail waiter”. Since this is our first encounter I wouldn’t expect much more of public use, unless it felt naturally in play.

I am excited to have a new “toy” to play with that has the broad and open mind and experimental nature of this one. It will be nice to have a slave that can take it as freaky as I will feel the urge to play sometimes. Holding back can be so frustrating. I don’t always want it bizarre, but when I am frisky I really get creative and wierd.

Jacque and I have been interested in colonics since we are pro-enemas around here. Well I wanted to research them for products as well as the effect it has, and the procedure…look at this lovely thing i found about what one product released from several people’s colons!
http://www.juicing.com/colon1.htm

We are looking into this for the health of ourselves and our slaves, and select clients.

I kind of concider just going to the Saint and the Half Moon as Staying home, since they are just a couple of blocks from my house. I went to the Bulldog to have a framboise with jacque-oh and matt (a friend I met on friendster.com that has moved next door to me).

Now, after we split one pitcher, we are back home for movies. I had cooked Matt and myself shrimp and linguini with vegetables, and jacque-oh says she is fasting because she wants to lose weight…inspite of my advice. Fasting only puts it back on and slows your metabolism. I told her to exercise with me and she said “No”.

She can take the quick and simple and I will exercise, well see which has the greater long term advantages. Muscle growth requires more calories and therefore raises metabolism, which means if your diet is average it will rely on your fat reserve. It also helps your body scult, and posture. It even helps the brain chemistry, reducing sleep disorders and emotional brain chemistry.

I am spending my days re-organising the house. I am spending my nights lately staying close to home. This place has been chaotic lately. I am sick of all the papers I need to organize.
I am sick of the confusion of my closets, I am sick of the disorder of my bathroom cabinet. The dungeon has even lost the organizing systems I had them under. Once it is re-organized I have to show Jacque the system so it can stay that way. I finally got all the lose cd cases in order, now I need to re-file all the cd’s that belong in the books. My desk is even out of order right now. It’s tedious.

I find that an orderly house really lifts my spirits. I want a steam cleaner in here. And this week we are getting anti-viral/germicidal cleansers like they use in hospitals to clean the house beyond the capabilities of bleach.

I am hopefully going to have this all done with in the next 2 days.

I have a new personal slave coming in for an overnight stay and the start of his training and preliminary arrangement before he is concidered for a full collaring. With Jacque around it free’s up more time to work on my personal slaves, and some of the other aspects of my little world. I even have been able to take some sessions with less notice.

The Fountain of Venus:
Female Ejaculation
By Mistress Genevieve

Many men find fascination when they find that special lover that shoots.

Shoot you say?
Yes. Some of us girls are naturally talented at female ejaculation. It isn’t some miracle, it isn’t so difficult, and yes, you can do it too. Maybe not to the degree of porn stars, and not necessarily every time, but you’ll surprise yourself.

See, the male and female bodies aren’t so very different. In the beginning of life the sex buds of both sexes are identical. The prostate doesn’t manifest out of nothing. In the female there is an equivalent to the male organ that produces seminal fluid in males.

The most important thing to be able to female ejaculate is to relax!!! If you have ever felt like you were about to pee during orgasm, then you were probably about to shoot. The urethra in male and female do not open when in the throws of orgasm. Swelling of the prostate and the G-spot (for lack of a technical term in Gray’s Anatomy) swells and closes the urethra at the point of orgasm.

What is the female G-spot? Where is it? The G-spot is an area about an inch to an inch and a half across and located approximately two finger joints deep inside the vaginal canal. The G-spot is named for the doctor who first discovered, it in 1950, Dr. Ernest Gräafenberg (1881-1957).

There is a way to stimulate the sponge like organ to fill with fluid, which is essential to the release during orgasm. The fluid has an unknown purpose for the vagina. It neither lubricates nor has any known reproductive value. It is neither vaginal fluid nor urine.

For the male: Many men are highly aroused by a lover that squirts. You can teach your lover to do so by lots of foreplay and the insertion of your finger in to the vagina at the height of excitement. Feel in her for the sponge like texture inside the front wall of the vagina. Remember it is about two finger digits deep inside. Work the area in a “coochie coo” type tickle.

For women: Many women cut themselves short on orgasm. Many think they know what an orgasm is but have always fallen short of it’s true potential. If you feel like you have to pee…don’t fear this. Remember it isn’t pee.

Many women actually hold back from orgasm out of control issues. A strong orgasm at the hands of another may make one feel at their mercy, and some aren’t ready to give that control to someone else. Try with yourself first, if need be.

I personally find that Kagel exercises are all I need to hit my own g-spot during orgasm. And during sex, the Kagel muscles can direct the man’s penis to hit the right spot. The Kagel muscles are the groups of muscles that squeeze the opening and push in the vaginal walls. Your lovers will often be impressed by muscle control so Kagel exercises provide more benefits than just g-spot stimulation. I personally practice daily, if not many times a day. You can do it while just walking through the store.

You may find that female ejaculation can leave you as depleted, relaxed and sleepy as a male’s. It can be good messy fun and I encourage you to just relax, let go and experiment. You may find that this knowledge gives you what your sex life had been missing.

msgenevieve.com

I just realized that I forgot to write my article for this month’s magazine. I am on it right away. This won’t take long.

I have dug in my file cabinet for my research on the subject of female ejeculation, and I am writing on the subject.

Yes, I do have a huge file of all sorts of research I have done on so many obscure areas of play. I researched so many safety aspects of the scene, so many different inputs on the mental aspects and formal protol.

To further perfect my art of domination and sadism I attend many workshops and lectures. I have attended some by Midori, Ilsa Strix, Jay Wiseman, Janet Hardy, and Cleo du Bois…just to mention the ones here. I don’t remember the names of the people I saw lecture for my many years in Houston. I even had private instruction from Ilsa Strix in my dungeon on making “manginas” and rope suspension.

I even read books writen for beginner dommes, and actually will read anyone’s input on the subject. You can never know it all, and even someone totally new to the scene may have an idea or perspective that could really help you grow and improve yourself.

I have started doing my ab exercises again. I love the muscle soreness.

“empty” ison the way over, and jacque-oh is still in bed. we ended up walking a couple of blocks from the house to the Saint and the Half Moon just to go see new faces, take a break from the Quarter. I called Lance and John and she Called Micheal because they all live close to there, and hung out for a bit. i sat around talking with Jeanne from Poet’s Gallery, we both miss Todd, and want him to hurry home. Took some pics in the photo booth with Armand. The bartended put on the Best of the Muppet Show for me, who knows…I might go there for their 8 p.m. movie…but Rick Slave is out of town so it is someone else picking the flick.

I am looking forward to this week. Batty and Kelly are coming and they haven’t been here in over a month. I want them to hurry and move here. I might venture to Houston for a day or two, possibly catching a ride there with them. Since I have lots of stuff to do there, but can’t spend too much time away from here.

“empty” wants me to go to Orlando with him for all the theme parks in September but, too much going on to just up and leave town for a full 5 days.

Claudia is calling and asking when I will get to come to Pheonix to be with her for a few days and I also can’t break away just yet for that…I might be able to after I am done doing the fetish ball in Houston.

Then in November Dez is coming to spend a couple of days with me for her birthday, since it will have been almost 4 years since I saw her. I miss and love her so much, I just wish I could see her kids too. I love her daughter to death!

I hate the idea of Christmas, but I think that with it being 6 years since I saw my Grandmother (when I stayed two weeks with her to help her through her lymphelectomy for breast cancer) I should go see her. I also have my dads family who I haven’t seen for the holidays since I moved here. I actually love going to places where no one has family for any type of family holiday…then there aren’t the family tiffs and issues.

I really want to go see Shannon, Cali and Nefaria in New Mexico (even though I hate New Mexico). Cali and Shannon and I are to suspend on hooks together soon. If I were just independantly wealthy I would be on a plane every five second to see someone else that is important to me and far away…Like Myka in Brooklyn, and Eddy in New Zealand, and the boys from Real MacKenzies wanting me to come to Vancouver, and seeing Heather, Len and Emma in Toronto…and the London to see Helen and Dave. And even drop in on Todd and Misha in LA. And lets not forget Memory in South Beach, and Kat and Barbie in Tampa. Oh, and Chad and Coleen and Will in Chicago!

And though I would visit Aaron, I won’t visit Ohio…just the name of that place draws up images of midwest america…eeek.

Last night we stayed in…tonight we are staying in, and I anticipate tomorrow night to be the same story.

We just saw a movie called May which I simply have to have Ugly Shyla watch.

Time to play with “empty”…Jacque-oh will be practicing her ropes during this scene. We just went to dinner with him…that is our usual weekend.

I have a few other movies to watch, and hopefully I don’t have insomnia…last night I had insomnia even though I stayed home and took some sleep aids. Dammit!

My sleep issues are getting rediculous.
Atleast a friend of mine I hadn’t seen in a while came over and watched movies and gave me a kick ass back rub. Now he’s passed out and I am bored out of my wits, and it only drives me nuts to lie down. These stress knots are still there despite his skills at massage.
Jacque passed out almost immediately.

And on another note…that session before I went out last night was great except for one little hang up…he seemed to think that he was entitled to grab at boobs and other anatomy! This got a hardy slap, which unfortunately was probably his passive aggressive objective. After the session he said “You mean I really can’t play with your boobs? Why?” Well between Mistress and submissive whats Mistress’s is Mistress’s, and what’s the submissive’s is the Mistress’s. A sub isn’t to even touch themself unless the Mistress has expressed it as acceptable! Until the interlude is concluded, or the collared relationship is dropped the sub’s not to aim for sexual gratification of the slightest matter with out the dominant’s approval. The dominant isn’t just in control of the pain the sub feels, but also the pleasure.

That can even go further, into teasing and denying, or even further into forced climax, where after you drive the person stark raving mad by continuing to force them to go past orgasm when they are too sensitive.

I made a little game I used to play of stop and go, where I would make the subby masturbate till I said stop, then go, then stop, and sometimes I would let them get real close, then stop. Then I would stop-go really frequent, followed by long periods of go or stop. By the end the subby would be so teased that he would try to cum and he couldn’t and he’d get blue balls. ha ha ha!!!!

Some of my favorite games are ones where the subby gets stuck in a loop, in masturbation, or in singing childrens’ songs to their torture over and over for 2 hours so it is firmly brainwashed in. Then all day they can’t think with out hearing the song in their head, which then brings up all the attatched memories of the scene and the Mistress, and the mind fools them into feeling some of the lingering sensation, or cringing at the thought of the cruelties, or even provokes erections from the things they enjoyed most from the scene.

“empty” now tries to say he can’t sing…but those that don’t sing when I tell them get suffering…sing, keep me happy or your balls will fry! He never looks at Cookie Monster the same now! ha ha ha.

Another game I used to play years ago was “confessional” where I heard all their sins, especially chauvanism and infidelity and I dished out punishment accordingly. And often it was them telling me in almost a mantra through their torture, “I’m a pussy! I’m a dog! I am a filthy pig!”. I felt I was dealing out the punishment for the women they disrespected, and in a way redeaming them, and hopefully making them feel like filthy little creepy cowards for treating women that way and then telling me as a woman that they worship me. How can you treat women as a whole like meat slabs to hump, and then tell your Mistress that you worship women?

There were so many games I have made up to amuse myself with the submissives in the last decade. Like blind folding the subbies, and having a room full of mistresses flog and shuffle about and see if they could figure out who’s blow was mine and how many consecutive blows were from whom?

There was always a game I loved called “chicken pussy”. I would shove ice up their butt, make them cluck like a chicken , singing”chicken pussy, chicken pussy cluck cluck , one…” counting of each ice cube as they tried to lay them one by one like eggs. They were punished if they got more than one out at a time.

God, the things submissives have done to give me stuff to laugh about for years to come…I love it. It’s funny that when I talk to some people they ask, “How do you keep from laughing?”. I laugh, I laugh all I want. This porno tape BDSM Mistress stereotype is so stupid…the expressionless face, the pout and scowl. Blah! If you are a sadist you derive pleasure from the physical torment and humiliation suffered in your honor! And if you truelly are a sadist then you often find times where you are so pleased that you laugh and smile at their trials of devotion!

Oh, I do have a bizarre and wonderful life… So much has happened in the first 30 years, I can’t imagine what more I will encounter in the next 30. It boggles my mind.