The Fountain of Venus:
Female Ejaculation
By Mistress Genevieve

Many men find fascination when they find that special lover that shoots.

Shoot you say?
Yes. Some of us girls are naturally talented at female ejaculation. It isn’t some miracle, it isn’t so difficult, and yes, you can do it too. Maybe not to the degree of porn stars, and not necessarily every time, but you’ll surprise yourself.

See, the male and female bodies aren’t so very different. In the beginning of life the sex buds of both sexes are identical. The prostate doesn’t manifest out of nothing. In the female there is an equivalent to the male organ that produces seminal fluid in males.

The most important thing to be able to female ejaculate is to relax!!! If you have ever felt like you were about to pee during orgasm, then you were probably about to shoot. The urethra in male and female do not open when in the throws of orgasm. Swelling of the prostate and the G-spot (for lack of a technical term in Gray’s Anatomy) swells and closes the urethra at the point of orgasm.

What is the female G-spot? Where is it? The G-spot is an area about an inch to an inch and a half across and located approximately two finger joints deep inside the vaginal canal. The G-spot is named for the doctor who first discovered, it in 1950, Dr. Ernest Gräafenberg (1881-1957).

There is a way to stimulate the sponge like organ to fill with fluid, which is essential to the release during orgasm. The fluid has an unknown purpose for the vagina. It neither lubricates nor has any known reproductive value. It is neither vaginal fluid nor urine.

For the male: Many men are highly aroused by a lover that squirts. You can teach your lover to do so by lots of foreplay and the insertion of your finger in to the vagina at the height of excitement. Feel in her for the sponge like texture inside the front wall of the vagina. Remember it is about two finger digits deep inside. Work the area in a “coochie coo” type tickle.

For women: Many women cut themselves short on orgasm. Many think they know what an orgasm is but have always fallen short of it’s true potential. If you feel like you have to pee…don’t fear this. Remember it isn’t pee.

Many women actually hold back from orgasm out of control issues. A strong orgasm at the hands of another may make one feel at their mercy, and some aren’t ready to give that control to someone else. Try with yourself first, if need be.

I personally find that Kagel exercises are all I need to hit my own g-spot during orgasm. And during sex, the Kagel muscles can direct the man’s penis to hit the right spot. The Kagel muscles are the groups of muscles that squeeze the opening and push in the vaginal walls. Your lovers will often be impressed by muscle control so Kagel exercises provide more benefits than just g-spot stimulation. I personally practice daily, if not many times a day. You can do it while just walking through the store.

You may find that female ejaculation can leave you as depleted, relaxed and sleepy as a male’s. It can be good messy fun and I encourage you to just relax, let go and experiment. You may find that this knowledge gives you what your sex life had been missing.

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I just realized that I forgot to write my article for this month’s magazine. I am on it right away. This won’t take long.

I have dug in my file cabinet for my research on the subject of female ejeculation, and I am writing on the subject.

Yes, I do have a huge file of all sorts of research I have done on so many obscure areas of play. I researched so many safety aspects of the scene, so many different inputs on the mental aspects and formal protol.

To further perfect my art of domination and sadism I attend many workshops and lectures. I have attended some by Midori, Ilsa Strix, Jay Wiseman, Janet Hardy, and Cleo du Bois…just to mention the ones here. I don’t remember the names of the people I saw lecture for my many years in Houston. I even had private instruction from Ilsa Strix in my dungeon on making “manginas” and rope suspension.

I even read books writen for beginner dommes, and actually will read anyone’s input on the subject. You can never know it all, and even someone totally new to the scene may have an idea or perspective that could really help you grow and improve yourself.