I have taken on a novice dominant. We have been friends for a little while now, but as of lately she and I have been inseperable.

I am really sentimental sappy and happy about all of it. There are a lot of typo-s in the following post because I am just bubbling over with mush emotional PMS. So I really made a lot of errors by just trying to keep up with my excitability. I am so so so happy. But I still am fiesty and wickedly sadistic as well.

She had asked me in February if I could train her, and I really didn’t think I wanted to just because she is so bubbly and cute that I didn’t see her duality of being stern and serious. I am a bit intimidating to a lot of people because of my loud and aggressive personality. But in her case, she isn’t intimidating. She is stunning and playful, a really great cool girl.

I didn’t plan on her being my assistant or training her, it just some how happened by us spending every waking and sleeping moment together and getting to be really close friends. I started finding it easier to have her involved in my sessions and she really enjoyed the experiences she was having. I think in a way, as a dominant team we are kind of a yin and yang. I mean we are both very social, confident, attractive, and have simular taste…but she is short with long dark hair and very disarming, all the guys fall for her girlish charms, where as I am overtly predatory and intimidating. She is just as preditory, but not as flamboyant about her aggressive sexuality.

I really think the subbies will like her. I think that this is just what I needed since my partner in crime moved away. My house was feeling so empty with out her.

I am really happy about this. She actually has ended up being my roommate too. We had a really perverted party last night. She subbed to me for the first time last night, likes switching. Which means that we can schedule voyeur sessions a bit easier than trying to work around slave girl karen’s impossible schedule. I still will play and set up appointments with karen too, but this is easier than trying to schedule around her work hours.

So to the subbies that read this, I am introducing you to Jaque-Oh. For the time being she is more doing corporal flogging, nipple torture, teasing and denial, fetish exploration and sensual play (wax, tickling, clothes pins, and other stuff of that nature). For the most part we will do double sessions, or I will come and assist her at her request.

Since she isn’t really used to playing with anyone other than friends it may be a while before she gets into cock and ball torture and anal scenes. Often going from being in a kinky subculture, but not hardcore kink life style to doing professional sessions takes a lot of getting used to. Such as most fetish girls who aren’t whorish girls, won’t just jump into touching the anus of genitals of people they just met.

I think she will do very well. She isn’t arrogant, and she wants to learn, and isn’t the type to pretend she knows stuff she isn’t ready for. This means that her ego will not prevent her from learning to do things safely. Which has been a problem with a few people that had tried to work with me.

She has been kinky but not hardcore in her personal life, she is truely in love with fetish, sensuality, and using her feminine charms to wrap men around her finger, which is actually female dominance in it’s own right.

Spending so much time with her and living with her this short while I finally saw the serious and stern side I didn’t give her credit for earlier in our friendship.

Part of her training will be allowing her to try things on me, and my neighbor wants us to dominate her together some time when we hang out together. I also will be training her on my personal slaves. I also will be using our personal scenes where she subs to me to train her and give her a greater understanding of how it feels to session to a domionatrix.

I am really excited about this new arrangement. I really needed a buddy like this. It feels like when Domina Shannon and I were teenagers and doing domination together.

She is only 22, and I think that training under me will really empower her as a woman. I mean she is stuning, stylish, and highly sexually charged in roungh sex and light domination, and after last night’s party it is obvious that there is a hardcore perve waiting to be nurtured to the surface. She is so curous, and though she likes to play the innocent girl card, I have come to find out that she isn’t what she seems.

In the past the people I thought were dominant turned out not to be able to cut it while training, they had false confidence, and were more inlove with some daydream of eating bon-bons and rolling in money. I’m sorry, but very few dominatrixes live in the lap of luxury.

She actually has already proven to me that she is serious and for real. She is newly single and really wanting to be independant and not struggling like every other young girl we know. I mean half the people I know have 2-3 jobs to scrape by because New Orleans is so poor, and with the country’s shitty economy lately we hurt even worse. And even worse than that most of the people are being let go and all the businesses are closing around here.

I am really maternal and she is young and ready to be shown how to be a woman of power, independance, and nurtured into the knowledgable pervert that seems so natural and undeveloped presently. I feel like she is my baby…lol. That is how I felt about Domina Shannon for the longest time (now Shannon has outgrown me seeing her as a dominant fiesty nymphette, and started seeing her as a full grown woman).

I for the longest time wanted to live alone, but this kind of happened by accident, but it actually has been great. She is a great help to me, and I just want to help her.

I think she is really great and deserves for me to give her a break that many others would be jelous of. I can’t wait to introduce her to all the subbies and slaves. And she and I have the same open mind about sex, and can go on the prowl together for cute boys and girls to play with. I miss that.

Between the things I miss about my Claudia and my Shannon, I think she actually gives me back some of what I got out of those friendships. The pervert friend to play with, the serious and realistic interest in professional dominance, a great girl to talk to, we wear the same size clothes so we have just doubled each other’s wardrobes, the person to have the house key incase I lose mine, a person to divide household expenses and responsibilities, and we have some of the same fuck buddies, and in our life style that means we may booty call them when we are randy. Some one to spoon with when we feel cuddly, and we are discussing in enrolling in school togetheer, and being work out buddies. I also like that now I have someone to cook for. It sucks cooking for yourself because you end up having to eat left overs for several days to keep from wasting food. Or blowing tons of money by eating out and ordering in. And we also realize that she and I don’t sit there and binge eat when we are together, because we prevent each other from eating out of boredom. We have a lot to offer each other.

I think that at this point that I am in my life that she is just what I needed. And I think that I am just as beneficial for her life and where it is going too.

I always find myself wanting a business partner that is a running mate, because I want to share my the fun I have in session and with my slaves with a close friend, instead of telling a close friend about the fun days I have, and having them not truely understand.

Funny, I didn’t consider myself lonely before she and wound up in this arrangement, but I also didn’t have any one in my life assuming the role of partner, and I love to have some one with simular goals to work on projects together. It’s like having a sister too. I always wished that my step sisters and I could have actually spent time as sisters…this why I tend to have a really strong friendship from time to time, and Claudia and Shannon (who were even more close and family to me, than the other girls that I have had other strong freindships and inseperable social schedules. I was even maternal from time to time with Claudia,( like helping her get her over about of depression and tough situations, I would sometimes dress her when she was still drunk from clubbing the night before and refusing to wake up when we had to rush off somewhere. I would make sure that she had a responsible driver when she drank a bit too much, and cook for her, hold her. I am such a mommy!)

Damn PMS, I am being a obsessive, horny, and sappy sentimental sap. I am so happy.