Today I had a session with a cute little novice. He had a nervous habit of curling his fingers on both hands and shaking his legs. So nervous he could hardly maintain his breathing…maybe next time he will have more of the trust to let go. It is essential to trust your captor and dominant.

I went very light on him, though even a tender sweet floggin, trying to slowly build him hup, became “safe word” worthy in his mind. Poor boy, it may take him a couple of times to let go where he needs to be.