07.23
Lara Paine just wrote me…she says Dare Ware is talking to her about me coming back in September to do the Fetish Ball like I did last year.
This year it will be with Lara and myself co-dominating. I suggested Jacque-Oh for the stage, especially since she is extremely into playing.
I have created a monster. You can’t keep her away from the electricity as a top or a bottom. She wants it all the time. I remember when I was that fresh and new to it. I still am excited and obsessive, but there is a bright eyed wonder when a young pervert suddenly has adventurous play partners and new knowledge and unusual toys. She is a switch which is the best way for her to learn more about submissives, and learn more techniques, and a perspective of why we don’t do certain things and how to better a technique.
We have done some beautiful scenes with her subbing to me. She is a cutie. Bubbly, pretty, and boobs that leave many men dumb-founded. They are hypnotic. We have done scenes for voyeurs and they have gone nuts. She is working out better than almost every person who has worked with me. I think it is more because she doesn’t let ego interfere with learning. Dominant ego is great for image, but you have to have some humility in the begining to allow yourself to admit you are a novice, and need more learning.
No one knows everything, not me, not people that have been doing this 30 years. But many I have encountered that want to be a pro-domme act as if they already know everything when you start them with basics. It is important to do a refresher, and make sure they know safety even in the most mundane and simple acts such as flogging. Just to make sure that what they know is complete…and who knows, they might even have something to share with me, that I can learn from them. Something tyhat escaped my knowledge in the last 15+ years of lifestyle (10 professional).
